‘Separate, but equal’ in sex and gender?

Published: February 28, 2013, 2:55 am ET
Opinion Assistant

“The Feminine Mystique,” the novel that launched a generation of feminists, was published 50 years ago last week.

In those five decades, the progress of women’s rights has lurched and receded, but equality of the sexes for men, women and transgenders is still certainly absent in much of this country, including at the University of Richmond.

With much fanfare, the sorority cottages opened last semester. These facilities finally promised space for Richmond’s sororities, as opposed to its fraternities, which have had lodges since the 1950s.

But for reasons never explained, these cottages were made much smaller than the lodges. Thus sororities remain at a disadvantage; some cannot even fit all of their members into a cottage at once, much less hold parties or other large events.

The privilege to host parties remains with the fraternities, and women must travel to those lodges to drink and dance. This unequal arrangement places the power with the fraternity brothers, and in the presence of alcohol, could increase the risk of sexual assault.

A sorority wishing to host a party must use a smaller apartment or find someplace off-campus. Alhough it may be a benign topic, hosting weekend parties should not be a right afforded only to male Greek organizations.

The coordinate college system is lauded by Richmond’s website as a system to “foster academic and personal development.” But, as one Collegian contributor intelligently noted last week, this is an unrealistic and complicated arrangement.

There are two leadership boards, two deaneries and two staffs divided, not usefully by specialization, but arbitrarily by gender. The student leaders elected within the Richmond and Westhampton college government associations need only to appeal to men or women respectively, and gain no experience in connecting with the other 50 percent of the human population.

The sexism of the coordinate college system is not its treatment of women, but instead its forcing students to identify as one of the two traditional genders. Every undergraduate student must start out as a Richmond or Westhampton college student, thus leaving transgender students with no place to turn.

To look at it crudely, if the coordinate college system were as amazing as Richmond claims, then why do only two schools in America use it?

“Separate, but equal” is a risky practice in education, and the vast majority of American universities have logically decided to avoid any chance of discrimination by being fully coeducational. Why won’t this university move into the 21st century?

Between these two instances of sexism at this school, only the latter has generated significant debate. To shed once and for all its image as an elitist and hidebound college, the Richmond must end inequality in its treatment of every sex and gender.

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  • Haley

    A concise, but very thoughtful piece of writing. Well done.
    A note on the sorority cottages: they were paid for by the sororities, yet the University was the one to limit the size and purpose of these spaces. According to fire code, no more than 89 people are allowed inside a cottage at one time. Each sorority on campus is required to have a minimum of 135 members. It’s illogical.

  • student

    “Why won’t this university move into the 21st century?”
    —> because our generous alumni are of the early 20th century. Its sad, but true. I for one do not expect the University to change the system until enough of the student body shows the alumni that this is a real issue.

  • John516

    Dude brah, frat stars away, blow dem Westhamp FARM IMPLEMENTS out of da water. Richmond College Men, once; Richmond College Men always.

  • RC ’05

    The rules about alcohol are actually national sorority/fraternity rules. Panhellenic sororities are not permitted to have parties with alcohol in their on-campus spaces, while IFC fraternities are. These are national rules and apply all over the country, not just at Richmond.

    It’s still not right that men can throw parties on campus and women cannot, but its not the University that is saying that…it’s their national chapters.

  • alumni

    You make a very inconsistent argument. First you call it a seperate but equal problem, then you say the real harm is ”forcing” transgender people into a category. Either way, your argument is spurious. All Richmond students are given great opportunities regardless of gender. Your only evidence to the contrary revovles around a social life issue, which really has nothing to do with discrimination. I see your article as part of a larger trend at Richmond: students acting like petulant children looking for something to whine about. You should appreciate Richmond and all it affords to you. You will find that once you graduate you will regret not appreciating it more.

  • Chris

    This is great. Thanks for this, Ben.