Letter: Learn to Laugh

Published: September 9, 2010, 1:00 am ET
Westhampton College '11

Dear Natasha,

I appreciate your need to “speak out” against Kristy Burkhardt’s Collegian article (“The Dos and Don’ts of Freshman Year”).

I also appreciate the fact that you had the courage to publicize what many of your classmates were undoubtedly thinking, however wrong you all were.

Nonetheless, I feel it necessary to address your harsh words because frankly, I find them unfounded and disrespectful, not only as a senior, but also as a Richmond student.

I am not writing to “rip” on you personally, as you so rudely did to Kristy. Rather, I am writing in the spirit of constructive criticism (something with which Kristy’s article was laden, but which seems to have fallen on deaf freshman ears … ).

I am also not suggesting that you not challenge authority (or in this case, a senior) when you seriously have a problem.

In fact, those challenges form some of the most interesting forums for discussion and debate. Nonetheless, I am suggesting that you maintain a level of respect for the person to whom you direct your comments and that you ensure your comments are well-founded before you begin spitting out false accusations.

I would like to relay that KRISTY’S ARTICLE WAS A JOKE; an artfully crafted piece, wonderfully written and rife with biting sarcasm.

It was not necessarily meant to convey true “advice” to freshmen, but rather to comment on Richmond at this moment and your class’ place within our community.

This is not high school anymore. This is college where we have actual journalism majors who are able to write smart pieces that have (gasp!) multiple layers of meaning.

Sometimes, you will have to go beyond the article’s face value and search for its true intention. This is what we in college call “thinking.”

As much as I appreciate the vast amount of knowledge you have gained of Richmond in the, oh, three weeks that you have been here, you have not yet had the distinct pleasure of realizing what Kristy’s weekly writing is all about.

She has an uncanny and unparalleled ability to take a sharp look at Richmond students (herself included) and poke fun at all of our idiosyncrasies.

She holds up the proverbial mirror and forces us all to look (and laugh!) at ourselves. I applaud Kristy for her keen observations and her fantastic ability to capture these things so perfectly in her well-thought-out writing.

My advice: please, learn to laugh at yourself! Richmond is hard enough without maintaining such a serious attitude 24/7. If you can master this, you can master college. If not, then you are in for a loooonnnggg four years, my friend.

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  • http://twitter.com/Amelia_Vogler Amelia Vogler

    Here, here! The majority of opinion pieces Kristy and Liz write about are written with wit and jest, and obvious amounts of sarcasm. The only way to survive college, especially Richmond, and life in general is laughter!

  • http://twitter.com/Amelia_Vogler Amelia Vogler

    Here, here! The majority of Kristy and Liz’s columns are written with copious amounts of wit, jest and of course, sarcasm. Laughter will help you not only in college here at Richmond, but also in life. Learn to laugh and you’ll go far.

  • Fiona Carmody

    Someone needed to write this letter – I’m so relieved that when someone finally did, it was someone as eloquent and frank as this. Really nice work, Nicole.

  • Anonymous

    I strongly disagree with this editorial. As an upperclassmen, I was a bit shocked at the immaturity (regardless of whether the article was meant to be “humorous”) evident in Kristy’s “do’s and don’ts.” Seriously: “Now, I want you to remove that thing around your neck or wrist that has your SpiderCard on it…. you might as well stamp freshman in red ink across your forehead.” Does that sound as if it was written in jest? To me, and to many other students (both upperclassmen and freshmen!), it sounds caustic and full of bitterness. As upperclassmen, we should be WELCOMING the new freshmen, not poking fun at a habit (and, by the way, what on earth is so wrong about wearing a lanyard around your neck or wrist? Is it REALLY that big of a deal, Kristy???)

    To Nicole: It seems to me that though you may consider this article a joke, many others do not. I would seriously urge you and Kristy to think about how others, particularly first-year students, may perceive this article. It may have been written with the purpose of humor, but to me and many other students, it did not turn out this way.