To those offended by Isaiah Bailey’s poem:

Published: March 5, 2010, 1:22 am ET
Westhampton '12

Quite frankly, Tiffani Lewis-Lockheart, you chose to make your response article a personal attack; your efforts to mask disdain are fairly thin. Secondly, I didn’t think that J. Isaiah Bailey was speaking for all of us; rather, it was his own testimony. It just happens to be the bitter reality that, whether this is true in your own social bubble or not, quite a number of black students on campus have at least one experience that resonates with Bailey’s poem. If you would like to verify this, randomly select ten black students you haven’t met and ask them about their experiences on campus.

Additionally, I don’t think anger toward racial inequality and being subjugated to constant “other” status, particularly in a campus setting, needs to be justified. Deeply entrenched racial attitudes can prevail during daily interactions. An action does not need to be explicit in order to be considered prejudiced or racist. It is often so subtle as the white woman who grows nervous and subconsciously tries to create more space between herself and black males within range; the “hard to explain” dislike of the Richmond City elementary students’ presence on campus during tours; requests toward black students to contribute “the Black Perspective” to a discussion, and so on.

The rising anger that has buzzed around Bailey’s poem has come mostly from white students. I and other students continue to hear the article decried as racist. One reply to your article goes so far as to declare that he hasn’t experienced any serious incidences of racism in all the years of his presence here, as if that were the standard. I suppose, then, this is a great moment to discuss white privilege. The oversensitive may feel free to skip over the next two paragraphs, albeit to their detriment:

White privilege, as defined by WiseGeek, is “a term used to describe certain unintentional benefits given to people of Caucasian descent. It is distinct from racism, as the recipients and even practitioners may be unaware that they are in a race-based system of decisions.” And that would make sense, given that the “experience of whites is viewed by whites as normal rather than advantaged” (Wikipedia). It’s a tricky little thing, especially because “whites are carefully taught not to recognize white privilege” (Peggy McIntosh via White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack). In short – and you may struggle with this – it “essentially confers an unearned set of benefits to white people” (Wendi C. Thomas). Mr. Bailey isn’t masking anger using a racial veil; but you could argue that he’s angry about the veil (in the “Souls of Black Folk” sense) as created by multiple privileges, including white privilege, and other campus issues.

White privilege is also the parent of the Angry White Male stereotype, which may or may not have visited The Collegian via other opinion articles in the past. White privilege gives you the added cushion to the assertion that yes, you are an awesome person who has succeeded based on purely hard work or sheer merit, rather than foundations laid for you that give you a very clear advantage. White privilege gives you the ability to not have to see race if you don’t want to, because your own skin color is the right complexion for the protection. White privilege also gives you the ability to take the testimony of an “other” and label it “angry,” and “racist,” simply because you disagree and it makes you uncomfortable. White privilege is the ability to also claim victim status when you are challenged by a minority, and immediately garner support. But there’s no victim status to claim – privilege, not just white privilege, hurts everyone.

Oh, and white privilege is what made me try to publish this article anonymously, because angry white people confronted with the reality of the advantages of their skin color can be a dangerous entity. The fact that I’m risking a hell of a lot more than a shouting match to even bring this up is a problem. Richmond, we need to work on that.

And if you found yourself getting increasingly angry over what I just wrote, that would be your sense of privilege, whatever form it may take, coming out. I’ll give you a second to tuck it back in, while drawing from Wikipedia yet again: “White students often react to in-class discussions about white privilege with a continuum of behaviors ranging from outright hostility to a ‘wall of silence,’” and so, I say to all who experience it, you are not alone in your indignance. The great thing about privilege is that it allows the possessor to sequester away his or her experience as the norm, and dismiss any other testimonies that don’t fit into the framework of their worldview. What I and others (as I drew from multiple people for this article) continue to notice is how quickly some people on this campus dismiss minority experiences as the exception, not the rule. Lewis-Lockheart, you have added your voice to that crowd.

While an inquiry towards athletic status may not happen with ALL black men on campus, there is no reason to dismiss the occurrence in its entirety. And simply because one of your black friends hasn’t experienced this doesn’t mean it won’t happen to him and that it hasn’t happened to others. I suppose – after all, you’ve only just come out of high school – what you may soon learn is that although people are not often immediately aware of how race influences their actions and responses to other people, it is something that runs in the background, whether you accept this or not. It comes with the territory of growing up in the States in particular. Attempts to be colorblind, I might add, only add to the problem.

I hope that you will take a deep look at some English literature, so that messages interwoven through poetry may become clearer to you – it may give you an alternate perspective in understanding Bailey’s reference to Tajh and Tenaj. Bailey’s reference to the two students was simply an illustration of how interconnectedness with other students of color is often beneficial to the black student. We are a noticeable minority, despite what admissions would have newcomers think. Being connected to those other students not only helps a student of color meet new people faster (should I elaborate on the obvious?), but provides a network of support when, honestly, you feel like a Cocoa Puff in a bowl of Kix.

As for racism amid the fraternities, I don’t feel the need to point out any lodge in particular – it could just as easily happen within any particular one – but I’ve only been around for two years; it only took two months here before I was called a “nigger whore” with zero provocation. It took two semesters before I heard about a fraternity demanding that its members not bring “black booty bitches” into its lodge, and just as long to meet the women it was directed towards.

And just last weekend, I learned of a story in which several minority students attempted to enter a lodge – by the end of the night, the line consisted of almost all minorities, and few had gotten in. Everyone else had gotten in on the basis of “knowing the brothers” – did the brothers of that particular fraternity, then, not know any Blacks, Latinos, and Asians?

But it’s time for me to conclude my response. My main problem with your “response article” is that it is presented as some sort of defense. “Everyone listen up! THIS is what it’s NOT like to be Black at U of R.” To everyone else, I want to clear up the misconception that’s she’s thrown out there. All to be gained from this “article” is that you now (kind of) know what it’s like to be Lewis-Lockheart at the University of Richmond. There are multiple, complex black experiences at the University of Richmond, with a number of common threads. Some have wondered whether Bailey’s poem inflicted any sort of social damage on campus.

The damage was done well before him; it will continue after him, unless we use our fingers and mouths to form honest discourse, not verbal sparring.

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  • barbarah latrell

    ewwww.

    i feel like these are just facts that exist in the world, not just at the university, so all of you need to stop bashing UR. like.. unless you went to a school in Africa or where black students traditionally went to, you are ALWAYS going to be the minority. like sorry but thats the way it is… it's not the mean white people's fault that there are simply more of them then you.

    i also find that many black students are bashing fellow black student tiffani because she did not support the poem…if bailey had the right to make a generalization about all black people in America and just centralizing it at this school, tiffani should be allowed to do the same.

    chances are bailey would feel the same thing at any college he went to.. it just hurts so many people because he talks about the white people at richmond.. had he written about “being black at UVA” im sure there would be a lot less hostility here. it's whatever, i just feel like the poem has just started so much unnessary sh*t.. like its just made everyone angry.

    and to be honest, if a white person tried to maybe explain how they really felt and tried to prove those things untrue which he wrote about, the black population would just call him/her racist and be like “oh hell no!” and continue to just bring up the past and stuff… nothing is gonna change anytime soon im sorry

    • Jake Morrison

      …umm

      • barbarah latrell

        umm what? HUH?

    • Shanelle Bobb

      Don't take this as a personal attack, but after reading your comment I was a bit offended by some things you said.

      Yes, these facts are not UR specific, but as University of Richmond students, it's more relevant to discuss things going on at UR. Your suggestion that because we are a minority we should just suck it up and deal with it is appalling. No one is trying to end racism, or eradicate stereotyping. Rather, the goal should be to create a community in which minority students are not constantly reminded that they are different from the majority population, whether it be through racially offensive comments, or derogatory stereotypes.

      I wouldn't consider opening up a dialogue about race as starting “unnecessary shit”. Taking this attitude serves to do nothing but DISCOURAGE students from speaking up about what effects their experience at UR. Maybe we should work towards creating a more inclusive community, which extends beyond simply accepting more minority students.

      You stating that nothing is going to change anytime soon is just very disheartening and, again, discourages students from voicing their concerns.

      Oh, and your “Oh hell no!” comment was completely unnecessary.

    • samellakoroma

      Why don't you come out and voice your concerns, rather than just saying, “if a white person tried to maybe explain how they really felt and tried to prove those things untrue which he wrote about….” Explain yourself and how and even why you feel that university today is the way that it is and why it won't change. I don't understand why there is no hope for the University of Richmond to better itself, while President Ayers clearly has a strong mission that he is setting forth. We as African-American students can only speak on our own personal experiences and feelings, and I do agree that is where Jaisaiah went wrong in his poem.

      Hearing the caucasian student's side would help me to understand better rather than assuming it is just “white privilege” as David Bransouni stated. Just back up your statements rather than just bashing someone else for their opinions.

      Barbarah, your stance is one that really intrigues me, so I really encourage you to come out and speak on why you feel this way. We are all here to listen with our open minds…..just educate me more because I can't speak or understand your feelings because I am not a caucasian student here at the University of Richmond. Just as in life, we are here in college to learn from each other. Different experiences, religions, beliefs, feelings being shared just get us closer to forming a better generation.

      And if you or anyone else were interested, my e-mail is also just as my name implies: samella.koroma@richmond.edu

    • christiebarrows

      I agree that these issues are not simply specific to the University of Richmond. This is a fact that I think few would try and refute. However, I do not see how this is relevant to the discussion. Race issues are universal, and just because they are large and difficult doesn't mean that individual experiences with them are not relevant. I am sure that many other college campuses struggle with diversity issues just as much as we do here, but that doesn't mean we should just accept it as the status quo and allow our community members to experience discrimination. Our University is a small community where we could really make some positive changes.

      After hearing Bailey speak about his own poem, my own suspicions that he meant the poem to be about his own experiences and not to generalize about “all black people in America” were fully confirmed. Perhaps his title may be misleading, but that is why further research into controversial topics is so important. His poem was written as an opinion submission, and it was an opinion.

      I think that these conversations are absolutely vital to create any type of positive change at this University, not “unnecessary sh*t” like you claim. I wonder where our country would be if no one in history had ever dared to speak out and start difficult conversations about issues that were meaningful to them.

      I think that having a defeatist attitude and saying that “nothing is gonna change anytime soon” only makes the problems worse. I have seen this campus respond to difficult issues of racism and sexism, it is possible, and I think that if we approach this situation in the right way, we can change this campus.

  • David Bransouni

    I can't say anything because if I were to say that I was angry, that would just be my white privilege speaking. You set it up so nobody can argue with you. Good job, not.

    • to David Bransouni

      you have a valid point, although i’m not sure you went about expressing it in the best way…

      i’m doubt it’s an argument she’s after, but rather a discussion…maybe instead making Ashley feel bad about what she wrote…re-evaluate what you wanted to say, and just say it…if you still feel that it is going to convey your “white privilege speaking” …then maybe you also need to re-evaluate your personal attitude toward the issue.

  • Marvin Diaz

    First off, so many of the problems you found with Tiffani's response are also found here and in Isaiah's poem. But before I touch on these criticisms, let's just address several obvious things wrong with the presentation of Isaiah's message. Time and time again, those defending his poem say “I don't think he was trying to speak for all black people.” What are we supposed to base our opinion on, their hunches or the text and more importantly, the TITLE of the poem. BEING BLACK at Richmond, the WHOLE Truth. It's restricting and doesn't leave too much room for interpretation.

    Then you get to the actual poem itself. It doesn't help to convey his message when the poem is written as poorly as it is, especially when phrases like “epic fail” are expected to be taken seriously. But like most people who are critical, they are not trying to discount Isaiah's experiences (though they certainly can and will be debated) but rather are just trying to discount his experiences as mutually shared by all and only black students.

    “It just happens to be the bitter reality that, whether this is true in your own social bubble or not, quite a number of black students on campus have at least one experience that resonates with Bailey’s poem.”

    So what you're saying here is that a number of black students have had at least ONE of the near twenty grievances displayed in his poem? Not surprising. I'm sure polling random black students would show that some people aren't content with DHall and astoundingly enough, some students aren't happy with not having a car on campus! All jokes aside, I bring these two up simply because they're two of the more obvious examples listed in the poem that really have nothing to do with being black. Most of the criticism comes from the fact that there are many problems with no relation to race and just as many that can be explained otherwise.

    A fair amount of the other problems affect people of all races, but if you want to get into why it would happen more to black students, I can try and shed some personal insight whether you agree with it or not. Usually, unless you're in that mood that night, drunk white girls (any girls for that matter…) stumbling through your door can be annoying. Actually, most involuntary action with drunk people while sober can tend to be annoying. Everyone I know that's ever been turned down at a lodge are generally annoyed and sometimes angry. But it's generally for the same reasons anyone gets turned down, which I'll gladly delve into later.

    Now what I'm about to touch on may seem somewhat controversial to some, but it's just an opinion like anyone else's. This is in regards to the benefits of the interconnectedness of students of color and that despite the University's best efforts, they, well we (debatabe to some apparently), stand out as a noticeable minority. But on the flip side, this interconnectedness sometimes serves to further divide in the eyes of others. Yes, this school is diverse on paper especially the class of 2013, but I don't consider this school to be diverse when you walk into DHall and the majority of this minority in question only sit at the same tables together. It's just as uninviting as most situations can be. You want to touch on the fraternity scene? Is it that hard to believe that every kid who gets into a lodge actually knows one or more of the brothers or at the very least a few pledges to vouch for them to the brothers at the door. Do you want to know why people getting turned down at the lodges have spiked since second semester? It's not a matter of “brothers not knowing any blacks, hispanics, or latinos”…the onus is on us to know them. All of first semester they have opened their apartments, lodges and various events to everyone. You do know how they operate, correct? The goal of first semester is to be quite inclusive, opening their doors to appeal to and attract kids to rush their fraternity next semester. Even if you're not thinking about joining a fraternity the first year or at all, if you go out on weekends an average amount and do not just keep to yourself, you will meet and get to know brothers from just about every fraternity and form relationships that you can use to continue enjoying the benefits provided by fraternities. Did I expect all of them to just come and know me? No, they open their doors and it's up to us to enter and know them.

    But in all honesty, I went out on weekends an average amount if not slightly more, and if you were to tell me to look for a legitimate minority presence at most apartments (not lodges, the distinction is important) I would have been greatly underwhelmed. Apartments are generally the place where you actually meet and get to know the brothers. And as I remarked, minority presence generally is not too strong at the majority of apartments. But its definitely not because they were not allowed in during first semester. It's extremely detrimental for them establish such reputations when trying to seem appealing as a fraternity. Flashforward to second semester, all of the kids who either hung out sparingly or did so without getting to know the people whose apartments they were using or beverages they were drinking at no expense now find themselves hard-pressed on some occasions to enter some lodges or enjoy the benefits that they used to. This happens to everyone who didn't make some effort to meet people. And if they aren't hanging out at the apartments why is it so inconceivable that the kids who are getting in are getting in because they know the people they need to? It's not that frats have suddenly become mean or have been putting on false appearances, you just have to think about it logistically. They can't afford for an entire year to be so generous to EVERY random kid looking for a party and drinks. The pledge class as well as being welcome additions are a source of established income and support. How hard is it to go out and meet some of them?

    Now it's very unfortunate for the awful yet rare experiences you and Isaiah have experienced here in terms of hate speech by drunk people. I can't say much of anything to justify what has happened to either of you, yet I can say with confidence that such actions are not approved by a very clear majority at this school, any race included, and that you would be hard pressed to find a school in which unfortunate outliers of a people with racism enough to openly voice it do not exist.

    Rather than debating these experiences as true or even discussing the reasons for them, the point is that they do exist and identifying the reasons is not nearly as important discussing solutions as to what can be done so that everyone (even though I've never felt as if I wasn't) can, more importantly than being welcome, can FEEL welcome here. On a more personal note, maybe I feel it easier to interact greatly with the majority of this school because I've had to deal with adapting to new environments time and time again in my life. U of R is my 7th school, and I've gone through catholic, public and private school environments that have been similar but usually differed from one another. I might even consider myself lucky or privileged to have been exposed to almost the full spectrum of schooling environments and to have gained a great understanding and appreciation for them all. For this reason, I have no apprehensions as a minority with interacting with anyone because I know that the basis for friendships, relationships and general acceptance are quite universal if you take the time to think about it, though it is always can be covered in a cloud of misconceptions, stereotypes and fear. We need more people to genuinely extend their hands to each other and not be fearful of the person on the other side turning it down. Honestly, yes, there will be those that do, as far as the kids you think you could never be friends with, you'll never know unless you put yourself out there, and for the most part, you'll be pretty surprised.

    Those are my two cents, take them as you'd like. Once again I'm not trying to discredit anyones opinion as much as I am trying to offer alternatives and maybe a better means of handling this issue. Personally I think everyones point of view should be welcome so that we can best understand how everyone feels and why. Feel free to debate this with anything other than “you don't hang out with enough black people to have an opinion on this” which unfortunately has been used already to “discount” other people's takes on the issue.

    • Ashley Andem

      Hi Marvin! Thanks for replying to me – I greatly appreciate that you took the time to write so respectfully. I both value and respect your opinion.

      Cheers–
      Ashley

    • Ashley Andem

      Also, I notice you are using a pseudonym – I had tried to email you. Please email me at my university email – an official and I would be interested in knowing your perspective on a few things.

      Thanks again.

      Ashley

  • http://twitter.com/capitalistchaos Dan Letovsky

    It's unfortunate, because by responding to your article critically, you will be led to the conclusion that my response is tinted by white privilege. I can only hope that you receive my response as the expression of a single perspective, which is all I have ever tried to do in responding to these articles.

    You seem to discount the possibility that white people can experience discrimination, because of the effects of white privilege. As a first generation American and child of immigrants who left their native country due to political instability, I can guarantee you that institutional atrocities can, and have happened to white people. I won't comment on my personal background in such a public forum but would be more than glad to discuss this outside of this board. So, I'll leave a short impersonal comment.

    Among the most violent mass-murders in history lie instances of what you may call “White-on-white” violence: Adolf Hitler's massacre of 6 million Jews and 9+ million Poles, Russians, Slovacs, and various other groups; and Josef Stalin's murder of 3+ million Ukrainians through forced starvation and 15+ million Russians through politically imposed food shortages. For various reasons, either political, religious, linguistic, economic, or even, yes, ethnically, those in power at the time decided that institutionalized killing was the best course of action. The perpetrators and victims of these atrocities were both “white.”

    Discrimination and persecution, the institutionalized actions resulting from ignorance and hatred among the ruling powers at the time, go deeper than skin color. That's not to say they don't occur from judgements made on the basis of skin color.

    But to be honest, I was slightly offended by your suggestion that my comments on Ms. Lewis-Lockhart's article weren't valid. That is my perspective; and the point of discussion is for everyone to offer their side of the story.

    • Anonymous

      All of our perspectives are tinted by some sort of privilege – so yes, anything written from your point of view IS tinted by white privilege, male privilege, and whatever else gives you an advantage in American society. My own worldview is remarkably shaded by my class privilege, although this is something I am working hard to change. So yes. You may respond critically, but no one can escape privilege except in given circumstances when it’s consciously acknowledged and accepted. And even then, the most you can do is make sure your privilege doesn’t trample over the efforts of others.

      While I genuinely appreciate the highlight of historical “white on white” atrocities, the contexts do not apply to the US. We have a very deep-rooted, complicated, and intricate history of race relations, one that (obviously) continues to influence interpersonal politics today – in a way that isn’t seen anywhere else. On the other hand, you are correct in that white privilege DOES hurt other white people. Tim Wise actually has a small segment on Youtube about this, so I won’t elaborate.

      I won’t write another full article responding to you, though. :) Thank you so much for writing a calm and honest response.

  • anonymous

    I think his poem raise quite a few issues. I grew up in the projects, I went to a predominantly black high school, I am considered poverty level, and I am white. Not to exclude this problem but there are also problems when it comes to social status here as well. I have been told quite a few times that I don't deserve to be here or that I was only accepted because U of R wanted economic diversity. I am not saying that this issue isn't important at all because, in fact, it is a huge issue that U of R has claimed to work on but I don't see an improvement. There are tons of diversity issues on this campus. U of R says this is the most diverse class they have accepted this year (2013) but that can send the wrong message, the same message people have been telling me. That is saying “Hey you aren't the typical pink shorts wearing, ugg boots owning, Richmond student who, most of them, live off your parents and don't do shit so lets accept you!” That means you are just someone the school accepted so they can make their reputation better. Why didn't they start having more diversity years ago? Why did it take until now? I like what you wrote and it speaks the truth. I may have my own diversity issues but I will never understand what it is like to be a black student at Richmond because I am white but, I am willing to fight for a more united campus so people don't have to feel this way, including myself.